Library shelves with lightbulbs which cast a warm light.

Just call me Ash

Thoughts on mental health, neurodiversity, polyamory and kink

I don’t love any men

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So yeah, showerthoughts they call it. That moment when you just let your brain run where it will and a realisation hits you like a ton of bricks.

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Toxic stoicism

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On my Fetlife timeline today there was a post by a woman asking for help with a troublesome new partner of her ex.

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Pumped up kicks

Fiction, Horror
Content Warning: Gun violence, gore
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Lucy

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Content Warning: Mental health problems
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I don’t get to opt out

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A little while ago I was on a very lovely first date with some really nice conversation (some really lovely messing around too, but that’s a story for another day!). During the conversation I said something along the lines of “Pretty much all my friends are queer, and I’m the odd hetero out. Some times I wish I could just become honorary queer and distance myself from all the toxic BS going on with lots of cishet men.”

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