Emotional Bleed
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This week has been amazing and awful at the same time. Last weekend, my kitten tested positive for Covid. Since we’d seen each other a lot in the days before, chances were I’d caught it too, so I decided to stay with her for the week. The reasoning was two-fold: I didn’t want her to be home sick by herself, but also I didn’t want to risk making my nesting partner sick as well.
Clippy
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My mom called me today to ask how I was doing. It was so good to hear her voice, to talk about how my day went.
That moment of perfect compersion
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I’ve written a lot about my fear and insecurities in connection with poly, so today, let me write about a moment of happiness and beauty.
That one time in the elevator
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When I was in my late 20s, my partner and I visited Yaoicon in San Francisco. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, it’s a form of manga dealing with romance and sex between men, aimed mostly at women.
So I wrote a book… but now the real work starts.
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No, I’m not talking about promoting it. I’m talking about the emotional labour ahead.
Running low on happy juice
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I can feel it. Suddenly, I have a deep urge yo flirt with people, to post nudes, anything to get a boost.
When enthusiasm turns to dread
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My break from work has been amazing so far. I haven’t been bored for a second yet, and I’m starting to feel inspired and full of ideas again… and that’s exactly the problem.
Telling yourself the Story
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A while ago I wrote about how, the moment I started to take my writing seriously, I froze. Perfectionism hit, and it left me caught like a rabbit in the headlights, unable to progress.
The Other Side of Fear
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I was watching American Horror Story, and oh boy… did that make me uncomfortable.
The Stick-shift Analogy
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Where I talk about how trying to follow the neurotypical manual will lead to worse outcomes for neurodivergent humans.